A feminist examination of infidelity -- Sugar and spice and the boiling of bunnies : gender, ethics and infidelity stereotypes -- Agency, individualism, and orgasm politics -- The divided woman : feminist vs. femme fatale -- "You want it. You buy it. You forget it" : infidelity and consumer culture -- Ouch! Don't stop! Infidelity as sadomasochism -- The divided man : lapsed feminist v. domestic terrorist -- Should I stay or should I go? : charting a feminist infidelity response.